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Brenda
BRENDA WANTED TO GIVE BIRTH AT HOME BUT HAD TO SURRENDER TO AN INTRODUCTION. SHE IS HAPPY TO SHARE HER CHILDBIRTH STORY WITH YOU.
From the beginning of my pregnancy, I felt that our daughter would not arrive before the due date. And indeed, tapped the 40 weeks, no baby yet. I had a very fine pregnancy and therefore did not want to be initiated. I was fit, the baby was doing well and I had set my sights on a peaceful home birth. 41 weeks, no baby yet. Since I was still hoping to give birth at home, I was stripped several times. Pleasant? No, but certainly not painful either. Unfortunately, this too did not seem to initiate labor. After 42 weeks and 1 day, I had to give in, I was initiated and had to surrender to a hospital birth. The balloon that was to be placed turned out to be no longer needed. My waters had broken at the top the night before (little noticed). I had 2 centimeters of dilation and I was “allowed” to go straight into labor pills upon arrival at 9:45am. The midwife went over my birth plan with us and indicated that they would do as much as possible to follow my plan (in a nutshell; as little medical intervention as possible, letting nature take its course and as little flat on the bed as possible).

We were really given space for the three of us to recover.

Well, that went a little differently. After 5 hours of contractions that were still quite “intense,” I found that I was still at 2 centimeters. With Annette’s voice in the back of my mind, “1 centimeter per hour,” I decided to let go of all my resolutions. I wasn’t comfortable with having to puff for at least another 8 hours and then push. I wanted an epidural. Since I knew stories where an epidural sometimes took quite a while to put in, I asked for it firmly (even though I was a little afraid of it before delivery). 10 minutes later I was picked up and another 10 minutes later I was back in the delivery room, sedated and all. What a relief. The sting was not too bad. During a contraction, the doctors gave me space to catch it first before proceeding with the shot, and I was amazed at how quickly I became a little “me” again after the shot. The epidural allowed me to relax and even nod off at times. At 5 p.m. dinner was brought and the changing of the guard came. The midwife who was on evening duty came to introduce herself and a nurse. After all, they were going to supervise my delivery sometime that evening/night. Since it had been a while since my dilation had been checked, she did so right away. What transpired? I had full dilation, a dilated cervix and was even allowed to push! Huh? This was shifting gears for a while! Between the epidural and being allowed to push, there was only 2.5 hours. Whereas before it seemed to take a very long time, now suddenly my labor went very fast. The epidural was turned off and with the midwife’s guidance, despite the diminished sensation, I managed to push well. Just before the end I cut in. The midwife took me through this during labor and prepared me for this. This was not too bad for me. After 45 minutes of pushing, our daughter was born at 6:32 pm. How unreal!
They placed her on my chest and there she lay comfortably while suturing. The little one completely distracted me and I got relatively little of the suturing. After the checks, they left us alone for an hour. Delicious! I was afraid that in the hospital I would have a hundred men at my bedside and there would be no rest. Fortunately, this was not tremendously bad afterwards and we were really given space for the three of us to recover. From start to finish sat for 9 hours. So all in all, a smooth delivery for the first time. How differently I had imagined this. Nothing at home, nothing natural and in motion. I laid down all day, standing and walking I didn’t pull! Everything became the opposite of my delivery plan, but still I can say that I really had a good delivery and I was pleasantly guided. The cut healed well and I recovered nicely. Although it was pretty tough for a while after the maternity week with all the maternity tears, the “lack” of energy and difficulty breastfeeding because of retracted nipples. Perhaps (no, definitely!) I found these 2/3 weeks more difficult than the labor itself. Fortunately, I also look back on this well, we had a relaxing maternity week due to a fantastic maternity nurse and I have not developed any fear of having to give birth again. In fact, I would do it again in a heartbeat, with all the trimmings, the full 42 weeks. I hope to have another child in the future. I would prefer to give birth at home and then also under the guidance of “my” own trusted midwives from the practice. As good as I look back on my delivery, how sorry I am that they were not there. After 42 weeks, you build a bond anyway. For everyone who may yet give birth: if I can do it, so can you! Love, Brenda

For everyone who may yet give birth: if I can do it, so can you!

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